Many parents sit in my office or on Zoom and say something like: “I want to help, but I also don’t want to take over.” They see their child sending applications with no replies, or avoiding the topic entirely. They feel anxious – but they also don’t want to become “that parent” who writes emails or fills in forms on behalf of their adult child. This tension is completely normal. In this article, I’ll share a framework for understanding healthy parental support during a child’

Loving support vs. labour market reality: what parents can (and can’t) do for their children’s careers Parents today do more than ever: Overseas or top‑tier education Extra courses, tutoring and enrichment Activities, leadership, volunteering… Yet when it comes to entering the job market, many parents quietly tell me: “I don’t really know how hiring works now “What worked in my time doesn’t seem to apply anymore.” “I want to help, but I don’t want to push too hard.” With a ba

Why high‑achieving students still struggle with their first job (and what parents can do differently) We all know a version of this story: A student with good grades, internships and activities Parents who have invested heavily in education But when graduation comes… the job search stalls CVs are sent. Silence. Interviews happen, but no offers. Everyone becomes anxious, and sometimes things get tense at home. From my experience in executive search / headhunting and career coa

Over the years in executive search and coaching, we’ve interviewed thousands of professionals – from fresh graduates to senior leaders. What’s interesting is that many of the small mistakes we see at the senior level actually started with their very first job search. Recently, as we speak more with parents, students and recent graduates, a clear pattern has emerged. Young jobseekers are often: Smart Educated Hard‑working …but still struggling to turn applications into offers.

Many parents in Hong Kong and across Asia invest heavily in their children’s education — tutors, enrichment classes, exam preparation and overseas study. Yet when it comes to the final step into the working world , many families tell us the same thing: “My son / daughter is bright and hard‑working, but we don’t really know how to help them get their first proper job.” The transition from education to employment has never been more competitive. Entry‑level roles now expect “wo